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Before the Rules: The Intuitive Roots of Social Norms

Video (09:18): Sociology explains how norms function and evolve, but not why they carry moral weight. This reflection explores the intuitive foundations that give social norms their authority before they are formalized, enforced, or written into law.

Key moments

0:10 The Limitations of Sociology

1:15 Mechanical and Organic Solidarity

2:20 Moral Intuition and Natural Law

5:20 Social Norms: Discovery and Interpretation

6:56 The Human Source

Transcript

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Sociology gives us useful tools for

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understanding social norms. However, those

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tools tend to examine norms only after

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they’re already in place. The

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functionalist paradigm explains how norms

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maintain social order. Conflict theory

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shows how norms reflect power imbalances.

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Symbolic interactionists explore how norms

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are interpreted and negotiated in everyday

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life. Each perspective tells us something

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important. Yet, all of them begin with

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norms already in place. They describe how

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norms operate, not what gives them weight

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and authority in the first place. What

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remains unclear is where norms derive

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their authority before they’re analyzed,

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enforced, or institutionalized.

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This gap between the source and the social

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expression of norms becomes clearer as

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societies grow larger and more complex. In

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small communities, norms are enforced

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informally through shared expectations,

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reputation, and social pressure. Emile

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Durkheim called this mechanical

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solidarity. As scale increases, societies

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move toward organic solidarity.

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Enforcement of norms shifts towards

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positive law. Written laws, rules, courts,

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and formal sanctions. But law itself does

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not generate legitimacy. In fact,

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codification can move us further from

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moral intuition. Transforming lived moral

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understanding into compliance with rules.

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Enlightenment thinkers attempted to give

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rational form to the intuitive

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understanding of what is right through the

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idea of natural law. This is the idea that

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certain rights and moral limits exist

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prior to political authority. Whether

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grounded in reason, nature, or a shared

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human condition, natural law is an effort

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to explain why some laws feel binding and

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others feel illegitimate, even when both

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are enforced. In this sense, natural law

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does not compete with sociological

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explanations. It gestures toward the same

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pre-social foundations those explanations

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presuppose. When laws violate widely held

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assumptions about dignity, fairness, or

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human worth, people recognize the

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violation immediately. This happens even

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if they can’t explain why. This suggests

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that legal authority rests on something

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much deeper than law itself. It rests on

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prior moral commitments that sociology can

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observe, but it can’t fully account for.

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Legal prohibitions against unprovoked

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violence are a good example. A

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functionalist might explain how these

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codified norms reduce chaos and allow

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cooperation. A conflict theorist might

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argue that they protect existing power

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structures. An interactionist might

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examine how they help us to distinguish

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violence from play, or from accident, or

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from ritualized aggression. What none of

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these perspectives explain is why

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unprovoked violence feels wrong to begin

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with. The intuitive response to violent

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acts is not primarily intellectual. It’s

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immediate and it’s visceral. People recoil

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from unprovoked intentional harm long

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before they can articulate moral rules or

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legal principles. Most people feel

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distress when they witness suffering,

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especially when it’s caused by intentional

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violence. That discomfort arises before

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any appeal to social contracts or

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institutional authority. These reactions

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point to something prior to socialization.

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This doesn’t mean morality is rigidly or

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universally defined, particularly in its

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details. In fact, the very act of defining

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morality adds a layer of abstraction

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between the intuitive knowing of what is

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moral and its social manifestation.

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Cultures clearly differ in how norms are

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expressed, justified, and enforced. What

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appears to be shared is something much

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more fundamental. An intuitive sensitivity

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to harm, to fairness, and to reciprocity.

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At this level, norms are not invented by

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society. Instead, they’re discovered

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through participation in social life. This

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discovery is rarely conscious. It operates

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through felt responses. Approval.

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Discomfort. Shame. Outrage. It happens

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long before reflection or debate enter

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into the picture. When behavior threatens

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trust or cooperation, it triggers a sense

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that something is off. That felt

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disruption becomes the raw material from

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which social norms are later articulated,

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negotiated, and institutionalized.

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Sociology is an excellent tool for

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understanding how norms evolve, how

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they’re enforced, and how they can be

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distorted by power. But it can’t fully

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explain why norms carry moral weight

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before they’re written down or imposed.

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This is the realm of philosophy and

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theology, which grapple with questions of

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legitimacy and moral grounding.

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Recognizing a pre-sociological basis for

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social norms doesn’t weaken sociological

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analysis. It completes it. It reminds us

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that social order does not begin with

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rules, but with human beings already

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oriented toward an intuitive sense of what

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is right versus what is wrong. Norms

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endure not merely because they’re

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enforced, but because they resonate with

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something we already sense to be true. In

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that sense, social life begins not with

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agreement, but with recognition. Thanks

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for taking a few minutes out of your day

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to join me here. If this reflection

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connected with you, you’ll find more of

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time to watch. Take good care.

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Take good care.